Nigerian actress, Blessing Obasi, wife of actor, Stan Nze, has opened up on her struggles of feeling like an outsider before she got married.
Blessing narrated her ordeal in an Instagram post on Tuesday, February 6, while reacting to a talk show about the pressure and challenges single women face.
The mother of one stated that getting married at an older age wasn’t just a choice for her but a journey of self-discovery and resilience and breaking free from social norms. Blessing Obasi said:
“You know, I had to jump on this conversation because after several years of feeling like an outsider in a world that often equates a woman’s worth with her marital status, I’ve finally stepped into a chapter that I crafted on my own terms.
“Getting married at an older age wasn’t just a choice; it was a journey of self-discovery, resilience, and breaking free from societal norms that tried to dictate my happiness.
“The pressure and stigma were like unwelcome shadows, whispering doubts and casting long, lonely nights. But in those moments of solitude, I found strength. I learned that love isn’t a race, nor is marriage a trophy for early achievement. It’s about finding someone who understands the chapters of your past and wants to write the future ones with you.
“So here I am, not a bride of youthful naivety, but a woman adorned in the wisdom of her years, ready to embark on a shared journey of love, respect, and partnership. And to those still walking their path, remember: your life, your pace, your story. Embrace it,”
Blessing and Stan got married on September 11, 2021, in Lagos despite the age gap between them.