Nollywood actor Richard Mofe-Damijo is sharing some very surprising and unexpected relationship advice on what women should do with cheating spouses.
Speaking first about why it’s hard for married men to not cheat on their wives, RMD said:
RMD: Every one of us who are married, we are the target. Look at how women are, how can you escape it? Women are like Delilah, they are like Jezebel, they prepare. The only way the enemy can perpetrate their real intention is to constantly aim at the image of God or the symbol of authority in any home, that is the man, and shut it down. It’s like shooting a general on the battlefield. You drop him and then the battalion scatter. Their mission is to take down the head of the family. So, it’s very difficult to be faithful. You have to get to the point where your wife understands what she is up against as well. Because if your wife is not up to speed on what she is up against, then you would be left open. We are constantly under attack because it pleased God to make us heads of our families and we are the ones that are under attack, and if you get the head of the family, you get the family.
“So what would a woman who knows this? That her man is cheating? What should she do?” to which RMD replied:
RMD: Protect her man. He will fall sometimes and fall really bad, but she has to be able to help to pick the man up.
“This one is it not old school? Because the women now it’s like if you cheat on me once, if he falls once, I’m out.”
RMD: It’s because they’re not grounded. Because they consume in bit sizes. You have to be grounded, you have to understand the concept of what you are involved in. It’s not old school, it’s nature. You have a school of animals, they protect the territory, they mark it. You come in, there’s a war, there’s a fight.
“So this is what you’re saying, I don’t want to misconstrue you. My father said to me shortly before I got married “the type of woman I wish you will marry is a woman who will see you in the corridor over there kissing another woman and she will ignore and pretend that she didn’t see it because you’re a star and it might be difficult for you to go your whole life without challenges, is that what you’ve just said?”
RMD: That’s what I have. That’s the rock of my being. I have the best wife in the world because it has to be. That’s the reason why I can go out there and for lack of a better language, and flex, because I know who is behind me.