A South African man has taken to social media to castigate a certain category of men for making women to become entitled.
The Logistics manager known on Twitter as @nes_kamogelo, said guys with low self esteem made women believe that its a right to get girlfriend allowance.
He referred to the act of one giving his girlfriend allowance, as nonsense and questioned those who do it.
He wondered why people would be paying their girlfriend to remain in the relationship with them.
Kamogelo’s controversial tweet went viral and stirred mixed debate on the microblogging platform.
He wrote; “Men with low self esteem have made this girlfriend allowance nonsense a thing. How do you even get to a point where you pay someone for being in a relationship with you?
Women hate patriarchy but want benefits of patriarchy. Its funny exe.😂😂 if wena uyi independent hun that submits to no man.
All of this stems from the fact that women see having sleeping with men as giving their body to men. Guys. Sxx is not something that is done to women but its done WITH them. Never allow a woman to make you feel like you owe her something for having sex with her.”
Men with low self esteem have made this girlfriend allowance nonsense a thing. How do you even get to a point where you pay someone for being in a relationship with you?🫠🫠 https://t.co/7hX8T4GXVO
— Kamogelo – NK🇿🇦 (@nes_kamogelo) May 25, 2023
All of this stems from the fact that women see having sex with men as giving sex to men. Guys. Sex is not something that is done to women but its done WITH them. Never allow a woman to make you feel like you owe her something for having sex with her.
— Kamogelo – NK🇿🇦 (@nes_kamogelo) May 26, 2023
Reacting, @Twulii_ said; Nothing to do with self asteem. He knows his girl will ask for money for upkeep or whatever else she might need during the month and he makes life easier by sending it all once a month.
@Theoghanaa; You say this and they call you broke. Meanwhile another guy who gives her nothing with zero attentions gets to bed her for free while you keep on being the simp that pays
@TwinBror; Wait until broke and lazy women coming to you saying “you’re just stingy, broke/cheap” because you said the truth brother 😹
@MissKerry04; The problem is y’all wanna date broke women. The ones who have money, very few can match her standards so if you downgrade in life, you have to pay for it.