Yoruba actress Dayo Amusa in a post on Instagram bared is all out, according to the actress there is no need staying in a relationship that will limit you, don’t chase after anyone and that when ever you feel depressed about been single don’t worry anything and everything is possible.
Dayo wrote “ If it is not working, my dear! MOVE!!! You are not a tree! Don’t loose your limited life locked up. Free your soul and have some sanity
If you’re single like I am and unhappy about it! Let’s have an interactive session while I share my own view on this.
1. I feel things can change and will change. Me I don’t care if you’ve been single for several years or several days. Just know anything & everything is possible.
2. Use this time to learn about yourself and heal! people use being with others as an escape, an escape from themselves. If you’re with others, then the focus is on them, not you. But how well do you really know yourself? Being single is a precious time that can be used to really get to know and love yourself. So spend the time getting to know you. Discover new things. Work on personal growth.
• Don’t chase anyone! Yea! I mean it. Don’t even think about it! If they have to be chased, then they don’t want you. If someone is showing you that they would rather not be with you, your shoulders and move on. It’s their loss not yours.
• Learn to love your own company & be focus – You’re awesome! You’re cool! Everyone is perfect in their imperfections. The problem is many people especially single people don’t just believe it.
Anytime am in this! I Focus on my great job, wonderful friends, my health, food on your table — you name it. I focus on the good things and this changes my vibration to being positive. This eventually make me meet new people who pick up interest in me and want to be around me even more than they already do I keep busy with things that makes me happy – I love to I love water I love to cook yea I love good food. I love being around my immediate family I also love to tungba with friends. I also love to traveling to new places trying new things. I love adventure Listening to good music and watching good trending movies. My dear! I just make me happy I realize the more I keep busy with things that matter, the less I focus on the negatives of being single ( Therefore! Keep busy and have fun, you never can tell who is watching you o #jmvwithdayoamusa In my favorite Habibat”