In a recent eye-opening live video, Nigerian musician and internet personality Speedy Darlington revealed how African men interact with women who already have kids from another man.
The singer who is known for his humorous remarks argued that most African men are reluctant to marry women who already have children. He suggested that only “weak” who cannot sexually perform would choose such a partner.
Darlington reveals his reason stating that he believes “no real man” wants to raise children that aren’t biologically his. He spoke out on the potential disappointment and loss for men who invest in raising non-biological children, only for these children to later seek out their biological fathers.
His comments sparked various reactions, with many disputing his views. Some women have countered his argument, sharing that they found more suitors after having multiple children.
Recall that Tontrends had previously stated a preference for marrying a less educated, non-wealthy woman from a village, rather than a highly educated or affluent one. According to him, the qualities that attract men to women are different from those that attract women to men. He suggested that men don’t prioritize a woman’s success or education level, focusing instead on other attributes.