A Nigerian man has shared a story about a lady who got into a dispute with her husband over his decision to renovate his mother’s house.
The Facebook user known as Jaafar Askilu gave limited details as he opined that the woman had confronted her husband demanding to know why he had chosen to renovate his mother’s house.
His post sparked a heated debate after he advised men to avoid marrying “stvpid” women.
The viral post has ignited a discussion on the platform, with people weighing in on whether the husband or wife is in the wrong.”
He wrote:
“Pray you don’t marry a stvpid woman. A woman was at loggerhead with her husband because he was renovating his mother’s house. Imagine, if he wasn’t born by the mother where would she meet him and even marry him.”
Read some comments below:
kingmontana17 said: “Man wey no love him mama selflessly no fit love him wife selflessly,,, most of my friends wey dey take care of their wives today… na their mama body we first dey observe am…”
thearrellgurl said: “But this is absolutely wrong ! Let him cater for his mum just as he’s doing for you as a wife . Remember she gave birth to him and raised him not with your mama or papa money oo with her own money . Let’s be guided as women cos we will one day grow to be mother laws too .”
only_1_diva said; “As a man learn to take some certain responsible decisions by yourself as long as you’re capable of doing it and it’s worth it follow your instincts 👌🏻🤝”
successful_osai said: “Na men wen dey take permission from their wife before them do anything”
mista_jackpot said: “if they are struggling and he chooses to renovate the house then she can have a problem with that.. as long as the house was not in an emergency state… never neglect your partner when taking decisions like this”
mazi_jay_jay said: “Person wey i know, if he buy bag of rice for him mother, the wife go say he must buy for her own mother. Anything he buys for em mother the wife mother get share there. It’s not funny.”