”Marrying the lady who was with you when you had nothing is the biggest mistake you’ll make” – Man warns men, says such marriage is out of pity

Nigerian man causes outrage on the internet with his advice to men on not marrying women who dated them when they were not financially buoyant.

The content creator shared the video to his Instagram page, claiming that it is the biggest mistake a man can ever make.

He holds the strong opinion that the man would regret making such a decision as it is not in his best interest.

According to him, most of those kind of marriages are usually out of pity because of the lady’s commitment despite his humble beginnings.

However, as the man’s situation changes, the love might have died and he might want to explore dating somebody else but he would be seen as a bad person.

He advised men to go ahead and follow their heart if they choose to date other people as a man’s real character is revealed when he is rich.

Here are some reactions to the video

gracepro_olumba said: “Imagine taking advice from someone that made two costly mistakes in one sentence just to prove an invalid point 😂”

talkwithmogold wrote: “So, in a nutshell, it means when you had nothing and the girl was genuinely with you, you were never in love with her? You were probably using her to pass time till money comes? I asked this because you sod don’t marry her out of pity. Where did the pity come from? If you were both in love with each other and you stayed through to yourselves, when wealth comes, I do not think there’s any pity factor at all in it.”

lingeriebytemmy asked: “So in a nut shell, make we no suffer with any yeye man abiii”

clinton_thrones added: “I married the woman that was with me when I had nothing, one the best decision I ever made. Nneoma God keep blessing you for me”

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