An African American lady known as Brie Couture has revealed that a lady she knows maintained a skeptical position about going into the tech sector because of her boyfriend.
She said she did not want to take up tech-related jobs because that would mean she’d start earning more than her boyfriend whom she referred to as her partner, and she did not want to be making more money than him.
Brie found her reason strange so she decided to share the story on Twitter and solicit people’s views on the matter.
She wrote; “I remember this girl told me she didn’t know if she wanted to get into tech because she didn’t want to outearn her partner…..mind you, she was single….
So you would rather make less all your life in the hopes of not making more than a man you don’t even have????”
Similarly, an American man revealed that since he started dating his girlfriend 10 months ago, he’s been the one paying all her bills.
He said that his salary is three times more than her own so he vowed to never let her handle any of her bill payment.
According to the boyfriend, his babe has now cleared her student loans, improved her credit score and he loves that she is living comfortably at is expense.
He wrote; I make over 3x what my girl makes and she pays zero bills. In the 10 months we’ve dated, she’s paid off her student loans, beefed up her emergency funds, and improved her credit score. Love that for her.
“What if she leave you?” Door is wide open 🤷🏾♂️
I was raised to always leave places, jobs, and people in better shape than when I first met them so if she did leave, I’ll be perfectly fine.
I add value to others b/c it’s who I am, not b/c I want or expect something in return.
“What does she do for you?”
“What does she bring to the table?”
Don’t worry about it. Focus on being someone with values and character. You’ll then attract the kind of partner who will uplift you spiritually so can accomplish your goals and bring home the spoils.
Reacting, @Statetolake said; That’s wassup my nigga fr but they gon drag me for this but I have to ask. What’s the point of y’all being together if she does nothing for you? Ppl saying that’s how you build but what is she adding? I’m seriously curious
@jcrxci; Lol why do you think if a woman doesn’t pay bills, she’s not bringing anything to the table? I’m seriously curious
@shawn_sav; Lol this is one of those topics that are touchy. Men won’t agree (they have their reasons) and women will agree (they have their reasons). I’ll say this to say, okay it’s cool that you take care of shorty. However if the roles were reversed, women would chastise you.