Bolaji Idowu, the senior pastor of Harvesters International Christian Centre, discussed how some women are not interested in marrying men just to use their money. Instead, they want men to have their own money so they won’t have to support them.
In a video, the preacher observed that some women looked older than their actual age due to the stress of family responsibilities
He advised men to be mindful of their choice in partners, noting that some women seek men primarily for financial support rather than for love.
The cleric advised that ladies should look at behaviors instead of just words. He pointed out that words can be meaningless, but men who have shown real progress should be respected.
He added that it might be tough to find a successful man, so women should focus on growing with their partners.
Watch the video below:
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Several netizens have reacted to Pastor Bolaji Idowu’s video.
See some reactions below:
@rozika29: “Avoid men whose mothers were core breadwinners for a long period of time or throughout their marriage. That’s all I can say.”
@amakakene: “Even the men wey no too get dey misbehave so which one person go follow?”
@recipe_with_mandy: “No truer words. Make your money I make mine. We can gift each other. And spoil each other.”
@aniekan_abasi_: “It takes 2 to tango.”
@lanrey___: “Dey play.”
@Laurelhill: “No joke I want a finished man. I am tired of building I swear…just come already made…at least v build while others reap.”