Social media relationship expert, Joro Olumofin shared on his Instagram page reasons why ladies are desperate to get married. According to the love doctor, 90% of Nigerian women would rather be “Mrs” & Depressed than Miss & happy .
He added that so many ladies believe marriage is an accomplishment which is why they are desperate.
In his words ” The title Mrs has done more harm than Good to women. A lot of women are suffering and going through emotional pain just to hold on to that title ” Mrs”. Its psycological. The term ” Mrs” makes alot alot of women feel accomplished. A man has always been “MR” all his life. Even from when he was a 13year old boy, A man has been called ” MR”. A lady who has been Miss most of her life goes through the following:
(1) While she was ” Miss” her firends who became “Mrs” cut her off.
(2) Society neglects and mocks her because she’s a miss. When she finally becomes a “Mrs” her “id” (Insinctive Impulses) does anything to protect that title “Mrs” even if it means :
(1) Accommodating Infidelity
(2) Physical Abuse
(3)Emotional Abuse… If a marriage doesn’t work society sees it as her fault that she couldn’t keep a home. The value of a single father is more than a single father is more than a single mother in the eyes of the society. Ladies please change the narrative and enjoy your life. 90% of Nigerian women would rather be “Mrs” and depressed than Miss and happy. Don’t let “Mrs” define your happiness.