A woman known as Linda, has lamented on social media about her marital issues which stems from the fact that her husband earns less than she does.
She is considering filing for divorce because her man complains like a woman, and she is basically acting as the breadwinner.
Linda said she is tired of being the one to cater for most of the family’s needs and expenses such as rent, fees and food, all of which she is contributing for.
She also confessed that she is seeing another guy at her office while still married, but she is impatiently waiting to leave her hubby and make things official with her colleague.
“I came to vent. I am considering a divorce, my man complains like a woman. Hes job doesnt pay well enough, and he is not trying to upskill.
I am tired of being the tech-sis breadwinner, I contribute to the rent and pay for fees and food. I am seeing a colleague and hope to make it permanent,” Linda wrote.
Meanwhile, an African American man has revealed that since he started dating his girlfriend, he’s been the one paying all her bills.
He said that his salary is three times more than her own so he vowed to never let her handle any of her bill payment.
According to the boyfriend, his babe has now cleared her student loans, improved her credit score and he loves that she is living comfortably at is expense.
He wrote; I make over 3x what my girl makes and she pays zero bills. In the 10 months we’ve dated, she’s paid off her student loans, beefed up her emergency funds, and improved her credit score. Love that for her.
“What if she leave you?” Door is wide open 🤷🏾♂️
I was raised to always leave places, jobs, and people in better shape than when I first met them so if she did leave, I’ll be perfectly fine.
I add value to others b/c it’s who I am, not b/c I want or expect something in return.
“What does she do for you?”
“What does she bring to the table?”
Don’t worry about it. Focus on being someone with values and character. You’ll then attract the kind of partner who will uplift you spiritually so can accomplish your goals and bring home the spoils.
Reacting, @Statetolake said; That’s wassup my nigga fr but they gon drag me for this but I have to ask. What’s the point of y’all being together if she does nothing for you? Ppl saying that’s how you build but what is she adding? I’m seriously curious
@jcrxci; Lol why do you think if a woman doesn’t pay bills, she’s not bringing anything to the table? I’m seriously curious
@shawn_sav; Lol this is one of those topics that are touchy. Men won’t agree (they have their reasons) and women will agree (they have their reasons). I’ll say this to say, okay it’s cool that you take care of shorty. However if the roles were reversed, women would chastise you.