Elsie Okpocha, the estranged wife of Comedian, Basketmouth has sent a message to women about their cheating spouse.
The mother of two, who has since become a social media relationship expert, pointed out how it is never a woman’s fault when a man cheats on her. Explaining further, she noted how a woman can be beautiful, sexy, the best cook, be intelligent, and yet their spouse would still cheat on them.
Reemphasizing that it isn’t the woman’s fault, she admonished them to stop starving themselves or holding themselves guilty for their spouse’s fault.
“This is to women, you need to understand here that when a man cheats, 80% of the time, it has absolutely nothing to do with you. So don’t you ever beat yourself up again? You’ll be beautiful, sexy, know how to cook his favorite dishes, and be intelligent and smart and he will still cheat. So it’s not you, it is never you. So don’t cry in a room, or starve yourself of being sad. Don’t blame yourself for something someone else decides to do”.
Taking to the comment section, many questioned if infidelity was the cause of her crashed marriage.
One Dafy wrote, ” I agree, but there is nothing that cannot be amended. Settle your differences with your partner quietly
One Doingz Grace wrote, “OK now I know wetin sup
One Chris Mbah Official wrote, “You still sound pained and hurt forgive your husband and heal
One Oracle Godwayne wrote, “When are you going back home of all dis ones wey u dey do no concern me. No matter who u decide to go into a relationship with they will never love u like Brought did.
One Official Sharon Donald wrote, “This story no clear, about husband dey cheat on u?”.