Lagos-based clergyman, Pastor Bolaji Idowu, has taken a swipe at church boys who date multiple women. He also advised women not to judge who they are going to marry by bank account
While preaching in his church recently, the cleric asked such boys to learn how to discipline their erection.
‘’Guys, can you please stop this habit of you are in church and you are dating five people. It is bad habit. Discipline your erection.
And when they ask you what are you doing with her, you say ‘well, it’s not as though we are dating but we are somewhere’
You are not your own!
And all these Christians that keep using F words, even pastors. It’s so mindblowing for me. What happened to our language? When did we start using swear words? This same mouth you use to speak in tongues is the same mouth you use for swear words. Don’t you know your tongue is sanctified? How do I check your phones and all of a sudden Triple X is appearing on your phone. and I am seeing all these naked men and women having sex. What happened to your phone? Your phone belongs to the Lord. It is sanctified”
Speaking to the ladies who multi-date, he said
‘’Girls, you can’t keep jumping from John to James to Victor every two months. No! Before you get married, it is a prayerful decision. You are not your own. We don’t judge who we are going to marry by bank account. We judge who to marry by the guidance of the Holy Spirit because a bank account can be full today but empty tomorrow.