In a recent video, Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo, an associate female pastor at David’s Christian Centre in Lagos, addressed her congregation while discussing the traits of what she considers a “useless lady.”
According to the pastor, a “useless lady” is one who asks her boyfriend for transport money whenever she wants to visit him, asserting that such a woman is financially unstable and unfit for a relationship with any man.
Moving on, the female associate pastor noted that most men are struggling inside their relationship now because they marry their wives because of physical features and not because of what is upstairs.
Speaking further, Pastor Mildred utters that most men married fine girls that do not have anything upstairs who can’t even assist their children to do home work.
Watch the video below;
See reactions below;
sharonsilvv: I don’t even understand why y’all are stressing yourselves. A lady that loves you won’t stress you with too many requests, and a man that loves you won’t even allow you to request for anything, he’ll just do it willingly. This love thing is not hard. Y’all are just forcing yourselves on the wròng people.
cashbenkid: For people that know me and asked what i voted for i voted TRUE. big girls don’t do that bs!!!seen a lot of em.
officialsm1: I disagree on this one. Nothing wrong with paying babe tf to come see you especially when the babe is not working and no income.
creativeoliver: Dear kings, I’m not sure you’re aware… but you spend less when you date girls who actually like you. Leave these hungry ngbekes alone 🤦🏾♂️.\
brownyigboegwu: Truth be told, if there is love among the two, there won’t be room for demand and supply or urgent 2k and transport fare. I will brake it down. Firstly if a man loves a woman he will take care of her willingly without waiting for the girl to demand for anything except when he doesn’t have at that point in time. Secondly if a woman truly love a man, she won’t bother him with countless demands and I tell you with all confidence that she will even take care of the man with the little she has. Lastly the question is: are you in for benefits or are you in love, is your purpose sincere?