Today, we’re going to be looking at the eight important factors that can strengthen a marriage relationship in Islam.
1. Good Attitude
Say Alhamdulillah for whatever Allah gives us Accept each other completely. As our Prophet (PBUH) said if you dislike one of his/her characteristics you will be pleased with another.
Our Prophet (PBUH) stressed the importance of men helping their wives. Allah tell us the importance of women being mates and helpers to their husbands. This is a real win-win situation. Husband and wife helping and supporting each other will result in a strong Relationship.
They should never expose their secrets to a third person. Prophet (PBUH) said in sahih Muslim that the most wicked among the people in the eye of Allah on the day of judgement will be those men who divulges their wife secrets to other.
You get respect when you give respect. This is mandatory for all Muslim toward all people how much more toward the spouse?
Our Prophet (PBUH) used to entertain his wife Aisha (RA) and she used to play and race with him.
Whoever does not forgive will not be forgiven. This comes from Allah, himself. We must learn to forgive each other for a good spouse relationship in Islam.
Spend time together. Go for walk. Take a bus ride. Visit a friend or someone who is I’ll (you get big rewards for that) fast together on Mondays and Tuesdays if you can. Make hajj – this is a great way to get a new start on life.
Our Prophet (PBUH) used to lead his wife in prayer, even though he lived connected to the mosque. He told us not to make our homes like grave yards. We should offer some of our Sunnah prayers at home.
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May Allah SWT bless our marriage Ameen.