Love is a beautiful thing. At least that’s what almost everyone says until they either meet a jerk or experience a bitter twist in their relationship. After reading so many horror stories of what some people go through in their relationships, I decided to give a heads up on partners that are to be avoided, especially for long term relationships.
Below are some intolerable partners and if you”re in a relationship with any, think again.
Don’t we all know them. They are always too busy. They never have time for anything, always focusing on how to make money and looking for a career breakthrough. For such people, their partners mostly seem like an inconvenience.
Don’t get me wrong. I’m not against hard or smart work but you should make time for what you claim to love and if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, then you definitely should make time for them. If you can’t, then maybe you actually don’t love them as much as you claim.
Have you ever met someone who would tell you they’re having difficulties deciding between you and another person or the ones that will say, I don’t know if I’m ready and then the next minute they want to get married and then they go back to not knowing.
I think it’s emotionally very exhausting and they are very good at wasting your time. Stay away from such. They’re not worth it.
These ones will dare you to leave them if you can and will keep wasting your time. They play on your fears and emotion and it’s sad that some of us stay in such a relationship for so long cause we’re afraid of being alone. Please, take a break and experience some freedom.
It’s not the end of the world and given time the right person will show up.
Married/Already engaged Partners:
If you’re there waiting for someone to divorce their partner for you, then you’re on a very long thing. What if they make up? What happens to all your waiting and not only that, if they eventually leave their partner to be with you, what assurance do you have that they’ll not leave you for someone else when they meet someone better or finer or maybe even richer. Be wise.
They are always postponing your wedding.
It is always next month or next year, they are never ready. Next year or month never comes. You are just there hanging to empty words. Please be careful.
If reading this got you thinking about your relationship and you can find any of these tendencies in your partner, You have to call for a time out. Please talk it through with them seriously. After that think properly on whether or not you want to continue in the relationship.
Thanks for reading and good luck with your relationship