4. Encourage her to share what kind of mood she’s in: “Women are often afraid to ask for what they want, but most men are more than happy to play along,” says s ex therapist, Dr. Gloria Brame. Talking about it means better orgasms all around, she says.
5. What are the most sensitive parts of your body? Make a mental map of your personal hot spots and share it with your lover when you’re in bed, Brame says.