Saw this on relationship section of Punch newspapers and i decided to share it…Read below;
Read Mr. Mudashiru asked relationship expert, madam Temilolu (pictured above) this question..
These are real life scenarios. How will a full grown married man/woman with normal libido simply abstain and not have a means of outlet to his urge? Let’s assume some men/women could, we are not all the same in strength and resoluteness. I want you to suggest practical substitute to mas turbation. For example, can a man take a second wife? What about se x toys?
Asides these admonitions on abstinence and control and fear of God, it would be nice to read about practicable solutions.
From: Mr. Mudashiru
Dear Mrs. M.U.,
Many thanks for your observation. Indeed this forum is specifically for the female youth and children. But over time, I’ve come to discover men and women, young and old of every social strata have been benefiting from my articles and sending appreciative text messages on how they were positively affected.
The girls initiated this topic of discussion which I had ignored for years as they had constantly bombarded me with getting help out of the terrible addiction. I think it’s only fair I also attend to the needs of the married and wise too because in so doing, the younger ones can be exposed to the dangers of masturbati0n on time and set their mind against it. What do you think? We’ll round it off next weekend though. May God bless you ma.
Dear Mr. Mudashiru,
I appreciate your thoughts; however, I wouldn’t be able to give practical solutions to masturbati0n outside recommendations of the Holy Bible which is our manual in Girls Club. I know quite well that it’s very difficult for so many people to resist their sexual urge and because a lot of lives have been destroyed because of uncontrollable libido, one of the things we hope to achieve in Girls Club is to teach girls self-control and also get them acquainted with their spirituality right from their impressionable years so they can have dominion over their flesh and live the best life possible.
Every human is bound to get physically tired and not be in the mood for sexual intercourse sometimes. However, when the bible says husband and wife should not deny themselves each other’s body, Mrs. A should try and work her way round it. True, she’s not a machine that can be controlled and used at will but married couples who love each other and who are committed children of God ALWAYS have a super solution to their marital challenges.