Get away from the idea that perfect se x happens at a particular time or in certain positions.
A se xless married life can cause panic to even the most conservative of couples and they tend to seek solution in the wrongest places
Here are 4 things couples should always remember when stuck in a se xless marriage:
1. Having se x and not having se x can mean different to se xually active people. Married couples should try to find out what se x means to each other and communicate their views.
2. A sense of humour is needed while addressing issues about se x in your marriage. Sharing a laugh can take away pressure, bring you closer and your relationship stronger.
3. Get away from the idea that perfect se x happens at a particular time or in certain positions. Most times the best se x is just spontaneous, when you are and your partner are just ‘in the moment’ without any aim to be achieved in mind.
4. Find what works for you and your spouse. Is it plain old se x or you both like to spice things up? Don’t pay attention to everyone telling you want to do and what you shouldn’t do. Their suggestions may not just be for you.