A boyfriend or husband that has been caught with another woman will always have an explanation and for Nigerian men there are classic excuses that have been repeatedly over the years and keep getting till date.
In no particular order, these are the most-used excuses Nigerian men give for cheating:
1. It was the devil
Ah, the all-time classic. Just blame it on the devil all the time.
But hey, just hold it right there, sir. It was no devil, it was you all by yourself. You planned it, executed it and got the pleasure all by yourself.
2. I don’t know what came over me
I’ll tell you for free what came over you. Selfishness and inconsideration, that’s what.
3. I did not mean to hurt you
If you didn’t you would not have planned and executed it the first time, second time, third and other numerous times, with more than one girl.Sit down, bruh, you meant to hurt her every single time.
4. It was a one time thing
Of course you don’t expect anyone to confess to being a serial cheater.
5. You’re the real one
Another classic one men like to drop is about how other girls are just to bide time and how you are the real one, the only one…It’s probably just another one of the numerous lies and excuses but as always you’re probably going to fall for it again.As you’ve always done.
6′.”She’s just a friend, it didn’t mean anything.”
There are two parts of this excuse that can be analyzed. 1. She’s just a friend, and 2. It didn’t mean anything. The argument for both are extremely simple. If she was just a friend, how did you end up having an affair with her?
7.To the Mistress
These excuses are usually used by men when they are married or in a relationship, and are hiding it from the other woman, mistress, etc.
8.”I connect better with you.“
Having an emotional affair is still cheating. Just opening up to another woman who is not the girlfriend/wife is cheating.
If you find out your partner is cheating again, it’s time to protect yourself from any further heartbreak by breaking up with this person. always a cheater isn’t necessarily true. Forgiveness and a new coming together are possible. If you have been betrayed but want to see if it can work, just stay heads up for a while and see which way the train is heading.